Act 1, Scene 1, "Are you Happy"

We all have had times when making a decision was necessary for our growth and development. Often times we may hinder our own progress by over analyzing the situation. We may know what we need to do but feel overwhelmed at taking the action. Often times when we are in the midst of the situation we forget about ourselves and what is best for us, we allow the situation to have control of our emotions, we become drained or even depressed. I often find when we are allowing ourselves to think first of the others involved we become more concerned with how they will feel, or how they will handle this new change. We allow our mind to create scenes, like a play. When we do this we become anxious over the possibilities, we become drained by these scenes. Often times once we have created this play within our mind it is hard to see the light. The truth of all matters, if you are not happy you can not create anything good for anyone else.

This one truth should be the basis for all decisions. The question is, "am I happy", if the answer is no you must then ask yourself what will make you happy. The only option at this point is to make that change, if instead you dwell on possible plays that could occur from making your decision you get caught in a vibration of stagnation. Image if every person first chose happiness for themselves. We would have the ability to Love more deeply, appreciate more graciously and give freely of what we love.  When we allow ourselves to become hung up in details and "what if's" we not only drag ourselves down, but teach others that we must care more for others then we can for ourselves. When we allow our own happiness to guide us through life we brighten our own path and all those we meet along it.

Today, spend time discovering those things that will make you truly happy, and do not justify it to anyone, just go with your knowing. Set your intention to be for the highest good of all involved and follow your heart. Be at peace with your decision. "What if's" are only using your imagination to create things you do not want. Instead take time to imagine the outcome that leaves everyone in their highest place of good. When you can clearly visualize this situation working out for everyone involved, you are ready to embark upon it. If you are not clear that this is for your highest outcome, wait until you are clear. The reason this is important is you do not want to fall into regret later. Know that whatever you do is perfect, you can't get this life wrong, it is all divine in design. Now follow your bliss, and brighten your world, for when you light up your own world you brighten ours as well. ~ Love the Process